I was bullied terribly from 7th-10th grade, and then isolated myself from 8th-12th grade. Isolation was a survival instinct. I graduated with no friends, and no one even knew me. I went on to college. It took a while for me to come out of my isolation there (as I was fearful) but after about 6 months I was able to. I left college with dozens of friends, and a girlfriend. A year after graduation we married, and a year after that we had our first kid. I now have 4 kids, and many friends.
High School memories are still hard for me and still affect me deeply, but my life is better than I ever would have imagined.
When you are bullied in high school you feel like nothing will change. You also feel like it is somehow your fault. After high school things change substantially and you realize it was not anything to do with you. It gets so much better.
My name is Kate I am in 9th grade I am so not bad at all but when I was in 8th grade I got called the b word And called a fatty….so yea but….it got worst when I was in 7th grade…. I got hurt and saying the mf word so I got hurt in the stomach and I met this boy his name was jake and he loved me but until then he got fall in loved with my bully… When I was in 6th grade I got called a little girl and So yeah….its heart breaking this is my story bye…..
Hi! My name is Lucy, I was bullied throughout elementary school. Things get so much better when I moved to the USA to go to Middle School, but it was a horrible time back then. When I went to 1st grade, because my mother is a teacher at the school I attended, so she started to let me skip the evening study at school even though I didn’t want to ( because I know it’s not right, and I know it sounds crazy to you guys who lived in the USA to study at school at 9 pm). And a girl found out about that and she’s jealous of me, so she started to pretend to be my best friend and then in a sudden broke the friend bond and starts to spreading fake news saying that the score I get on the tests are cheated and my mom helped me earned all that score. At the moment, I felt so betrayed, I just couldn’t believe that my ” best- friend” actually did this to me. This girl calls others to not play with me, she also making ” comments” on the fact that I have a close friend who is a boy, others start also starts to bully me and spreading these fake news all over the school, soon the whole school knew about it and I am being bullied most of the time in school. I just felt so depressed and hurt, I didn’t know what to do back then, I just felt so weak and sad. This situation continued throughout the whole 6 years of elementary school. This awful experience caused me to be sort of stuck in the memories and being very careful when I am making new friends because I just can’t be hurt like this again, it is too much for me to take. Looking back at this, I felt that I was just too young back then, I experienced the darkness of society at a young age, which caused me to be a kind of depressed person. I want to say that if the girl I mentioned upon saw this by any chance, I am not going to mention the name here, I just want you to know that you would never ever know what kind of harm you can do to a people’s lives in the future( and of course my life) when you bully them. So please be careful, use your brain to think what would it do to people before you say anything because it might cause effects you won’t able to pay. Again, think of other people’s feelings before you say anything!
Hey ugly I don’t why ur mama had you u look like somebody grandma ……. (Middle school)Hey grandma G Oh she ugly she try her hardest to be cute she needs to kill herself …….(High school) Hey grandma G Why’d ugly oh u dumb
I’m in 6th grade and my best friend has left me and is acting like a bully along with another friend. She is now going out with my old boyfriend, telling people I’m the one who spoke bad things about her and others and convinced people that I had said I wish her dead. I get glares and dirty looks daily. I’m being ignored and isolated. I told the school and they said just keep ignoring it. If it gets worse let them know…
Why do people have to make an end of a friendship like world war? Doesn’t have to be like this. It’s so painful. My Mom and Dad are so upset too.
Hi.. My story is so sad and embarrassing for me because i did in the past a very bad thing when i was with my ”friends”. I did this thing in 2014 and i was so afraid somebody to know this thing and here we go i am now in high school and one of those ”friends” told this secret to one student who is in my class and then more students know and they are bullying me…I don’t know what to do.. I am so embarrassed all the time today i want to go home quickly because i was bullying and its very hard…I dont know what to do.. I know my english is not good but u will understand..
at my old school kids would hit me and call me names one time one of them ran into me and i hit my head on the floor and after i felt like someone was stabbing my head all weekend at first i didn’t tell my mom but it ended up getting so bad that i had to transfer .
The first time i got bullied was when i was in 4th grade and it was terrible you know. i tried telling an adult but they just said that it will be ok and to just wait and see what happens. so i waited but it just got worse they started pushing me hitting me it basically turned into physical bullying. when i was 5th and 6th grade it got worse because it turned into cyber bullying. and till this day i am still being bullied and im in 8th grade. but my point is to have hope because no matter what there is always a person out there that cares about you and loves you and that person will always find a way to help you
The bullying started when I was two. Adults kept on saying how ugly and stupid I was. Then my story started to escalate year by year… When I was in the 2nd grade, many 5th ad 6th graders would threaten to hurt me. I never knew what it meant. In 7th, 8th, and 9th grade, kids always tried to hurt me. Kids kept on throwing stuff at me everywhere I go. Notebooks, snow, dirt, trash, etc. There’s nothing i can do to stop it. No one in my life can ever understand my pain. So, I keep it in. No matter how rough. No matter how severe. I kept things hidden. Many scars on my body, so many stories hidden behind that cloth. The blood stains my clothing, yet people still believe my lie of saying “I’m fine”
Hi my name is K i’m in Junior High and there has been lots of rumors and drama. It has been going on for awhile but I didn’t get to me but then people started to call me the h word or fat, ugly, selfish, and stupid. It all started when I met a boy and everyone said eww break up with her, but we lasted till three months and three days. Then more rumors came up that I sent nudes to his best friend, or that i’m cheating on him, or that i’m using him, or that I have never liked him. Well then it came to me so I wanted to hurt myself. And I didn’t like it but my mom told me ” K you need to stand up for yourself and don’t let them say them things.” At first I was scared to but i’m scared when I really let it out people are going to hate me even more. I know these hate words or bullying hurts but don’t let that get to you. Never be scared to fight back, and to tell them to stop cuz its just not right