I was bullied from grade one until the end of grade eight. They would call me rude names dont want too go into detail… They didn’t care how they made me feel at all… I had no one to talk to about it so I just bottled everything… I hurt so much that I wanted to end it all!!
All my life I been bullied. It got harder and harder each day nothing would work. Until I hit sophomore year of high school I met some people and tried really hard to get their trust and since the first day of school I stopped being bullied! You just need to find true people that’s actually really want to listen to you and help you. Then you will start being open and helping other people being teased bullied etc…
I was bullied ,it knocked my confidence and caused me to suffer with depression ,after 7-8 months of bullying I’m glad to say now it’s all over ,I went to a school where these girls just wouldn’t leave me alone ,they constantly started on me ,shouted at me abuse and chucked things at me,would wait out side the gates for me at school ,threaten me and I even got attacked,getting bullied will always be a big part of my life,I will always want to get revenge but I’ve had to learn that they will get their own karma ,I have anxiety and I’ll never forget the horrible things they said to me and how they made me feel like I was worthless and I wasn’t good enough for anyone ,their voices still go round in my head,it was 10 against 1 ,I felt so isslolated and alone ,I’m happy to say that even though I’m not happy now and what happened has scarred me but I’ve got through it and I’m proud I didn’t let them get what they wanted,I’ve learnt that you have to sick up for yourself no matter what people might say or think it doesn’t matter,you should never let yourself be the victim,and don’t give up because it will get better.
What I want people to know, is even the strongest and popular and talented people get bullied. It’s not always the shy kids or the weirdos. Everyone can get bullied, even in a tiny private school like my own. I could’ve seemed like the person least likely to be bullied – I was popular, tall, athletic, kept excellent grades, could sing really well, and went to a small town private school – but I was still bullied.
If someone had stood up for me, said one simple word – stop – to that girl the first time she said something to me, I’m definitely sure my whole year would have shaped out differently. But, now I see how different it could’ve been, I realise if I had stood up for myself things could’ve worked out differently too. Looking back, I definitely should have told a teacher. And while it’s too late to do that now, I will certainly do that in the future. I think part of my issue was I made too many excuses for myself. I’d think, nah she’s just having a bad day, or, it will stop soon, or, it will only make things worse if I tell someone. They’re all excuses, and nothing excuses bullying. A bad day might be a reason for some behaviour, but it’s not an excuse.
For any teachers reading this, while I know you can’t account for everything, I think you should know a lot of things happen when you’re not looking. As I said, you definitely can’t account for everything, but if you gave time for students to answer a simple question like “I wish my teacher knew”, it could change students’ lives.
And for those of you who are reading this that have been bullied, I’m sorry. You never ever, and will never ever deserve it. I hope you find the strength to overcome it and to not let it control you. Please tell someone about it, because I know now it would have made things better for me so I’m sure it will make things better for you.
For the people who are reading this who haven’t been bullied, please please please always stand up for people. Just saying stop to someone could change someone’s life. Be the person I never had.
And to all of you, please know that nothing ever excuses bullying.
hello everyone, yeah so I don’t know if it’s enough to say it’s bullying there are people in my school and some boys are distracting me in class and idk when it would be the right time to say something and the other thing this other girl my friend she is also getting bullied I have standed up for her now there kinda picking on me but tbh I care more about my friends than myself 🙂
i have been bullied since fourth grade and they make fun of my body and face i need help nobody has my side or my back i need it to stop but nothing ever works please help me
I have been to 3 different schools. The first school i was there from kindergarten to second grade. I only had one friend who wasn’t really a friend. I already felt lonely in second grade. Then I changed schools I was at this school from 3rd to 5th grade. It was the worst school ever the kids were horrible but the teachers were meaner. now from 6th grade to now (7th grade) girls bully me they call me weird and call me other names they also make up rumors about me that aren’t true. I come to find out that people think i’m different because kids these days want to become professional sport players but I want a tony award, people bully me because i love performing;singing, dancing, and acting. Its my life,girls make fun of me for something I love, for something that makes me special. I want to be on broadway but who cares what other people think i’m still being bulled I just got a rude instagram comment but It doesn’t bring me down and it shouldn’t bring you down because you have to know that your better than them
I have been bullied since 5th grade it first started out as just L teasing me to him calling me horrible names and body shaming me. Then one day he realized what he was doing to me and apologized to me. He told me that he was a victim of bullying. The sad thing is is that I actually believed him. I started to be his friend then one day he grabbed me by my shirt and lifted me off the ground. He slammed me against a wall at school and touched me inappropriately. I now am in 8th grade at a new school and i’m still being bullied. There is this boy who calls me horrible names. He looks at me in a perverted way. He knows my name but I don’t know him. He follows me around school with his friends. I’m so scared. I think he might do something to me.
Hello my name is Ahmad I am 13 years old from Lebanon. My whole life I’ve bullied and made fun of even my family makes fun of me. People telling me GAY, for me gay isn’t an insult I respect gays but in here I should MAN UP! If I cry I am a girl if I don’t punch someone who harrased me I am a girl. You know what’s worst then that? I have no friends and no one to talk to. So I started writing letters about trying to hurt myself to make people see me try to help me. But though I am scared that’s why I came here wishing I could get some help.
I have 10 girls in my class and 3 boys we are a small school and I find it hard. I struggle a lot with 4 girls, they have a don’t care attitude and I hate it they talk behind my back and then call me names. The other 2 girls are 1 of them is fine but she is sooo influenced by the other girl. The other girl was once my friend but is soo weird she would work with me and talk to me fine then I would find out she is saying nasty, spiteful things behind my back. This week I missed a day of school because I couldn’t face them they were so horrible…