Real Teens Speak Out

Losing friends because of rumors

I don’t know if this is bullying or not but i had a friend who kept talking to people. the friend and i dated for a little bit but then we broke up because of an issue. after we broke up he started to go for my friends. One of the friends was a freshman and he was a senior. the freshman told me he liked her and wanted to ask her out. she said no to him and that day his brother texted me saying that he was not gonna be my friend anymore because i “was spreading rumors which i wasn’t” then i called him and he was like yes you did, i dont know what to do because i’m losing friends from this one person.

I Want to be Bullied

Not really a story, more of a problem. I’ve been bullied three times in my life and those are my favorite memories. One of those moments being currently. It doesn’t bother me, I love it. It’s not normal and I don’t want to love it. Honestly, it’s the think I look forward to the most when I go to school. Seeing the bully, and him being mean to me. I remember last year I had a different bully and I was always disappointed when he didn’t show up. I’d mask it and pretend I was happy so no one would judge me. I don’t understand why I’m so happy when this happens to me. We aren’t friends either, they always hated me and made it clear by hitting and cussing at me. I have fun being bullied and I want the fun in that to stop.

Bullied as a kid, now an adult, still living the nightmare

I was bullied in highschool, it was an constant ordeal that I never could understand, the bullying got so bad at times I used to fake Illnesses to get out of school early or simply not goto school at all. I was hit , I was picked on, laughed at, constantly put down, I had my locker broken into and my work and things stolen or destroyed. School became such a problem with being bullied I ended up transferring to another school district all together, but by then all the pain and suffering from being bullied followed me to the new school. I ended up missing so much school and losing interest in going to school all together, and believe me I was a good kid, I studied and got good grades, I had many friends but nothing helped the fact I was so paranoid and afraid all the time of being around people I eventually dropped out of school and at the same time I was seeing a psychiatrist and put on medications dealing with depression and aniexty ever since I was 15 years old. I still have not gotten over my past, it still haunts me, I still feel anger and get frustrated for having to deal with that at a very young age.  I just wish it never happened , I didn’t deserve it, no kid does, I have read the news of children committing suicide over being bullied and this should not be going on, children shouldn’t have to fear going to school, it’s horrible that this is still going on, maybe if it’s stopped at a young age there won’t be so much irreversible damage so they can move on and grow up and have success as they grow into young adult hood. Not sure if my story will even help or if it really even makes sense, there is more to my story then I’d like to share because it hurts so much to even think about it or even really wanna discuss it, it was hard enough to even do this. But I do hope maybe sometime in time that bullying will stop, no one deserves to be treated like they are less then nothing , shouldn’t have to feel hopeless or scared of being in school or any where. But more people need to know the short and long term effects about bullying on a single individual because it can really damage your soul, your heart and mind. I would not wish this situation or my situation on anyone. I just only wish it never happened and now was allowed to pursue my dreams and attend school, and learn about life and build for a strong future and have a career waiting for me later in life and not to be mentally ill and have to relive my past over and over again.

I have been bullied ever since I started school at 4 years old. This girl took my best friend away from me and I had no friends to play with. I moved house and moved school. Everything was alright until I was 11, then a girl younger me said I was a baby and called me names. I cried all afternoon. My Mum got involved and the girl apologized. A few months later, I had quite a bit of facial hair above my lip (I’m a girl) and this boy I sat next to in class always said I had a mustache. He kept saying that a lot. I started to become self conscious and I began thinking I was ugly. Then this girl said I had a mustache and I looked like a walrus (I don’t know how I looked like a walrus). I cried a lot that day. To this day, I am getting it removed. It didn’t stop. When I was 13, this girl was saying how I was so stupid and my laugh was terrible. Then later in the year, she said how my fashion sense was terrible and I wore too much makeup. I only wore concealer, mascara and natural eyeshadow. I spend like a month thinking that I was ugly and it lowered my self esteem. I’m still in school and thankfully there’s been no more bullying. I hope this never happens to you.

BULLYS

i get bullied a lot because i am not like the other kids. i am my own person and i am not afraid to show it… well this group of girls are judging me because i am happy with my life right now and they dont wanna see me happy i been too many places to help me and they dont do anything. schools say they will not let bullying go on then why am i getting bullied why are all these girls / and guys posting about getting bullied. this isn’t okay i was to the point where i was thinking life wasn’t worth it… still sometimes do. these girls pushed me down steps , they spread rumors they would just run their mouth and talk all this crap but when it came down to it they would not do a single thing. the one girl keep saying she was gonna beat me up so i waited and waited for it to happen never did. i dont understand why schools are so ” we are anti-bullying” we are against bullying but they let it go on that is the worst place to be….a lot of people get bullied about it like me and all you others on here!!!!!!!!!!!! we need to put an end to the bullies.

Hi I was bullied by boys in my school. I was in art when a group of boys turned on me when I dropped a little bit of water on this boy’s blazer and work I said sorry but they didn’t care they told me watch after lesson. They waited for me to come out of class and 3 boys kicked me and pushed me down the stairs and everyone just stood there and laughed at me. they call me names as I have learning Different they will call me dumb, ugly stupied, pineapplehead No one likes you And more. And this got worse. I had this girl as a friend she was a year older den me and at the time we were close anyway I thought we were until this other girl in my year who I started to hung out with texted her saying I don’t need her and she started sending me rude text messages den someone told the teacher that I was getting rude message from this girl from the other year group. They kicked her out my of school from bullying me. And this didn’t stop from her she saw me one day on road them she blame me for her getting kicked out of school and saying how I was Chating about her to this boy in my school when I didn’t so she pulled my hair and kept kicking me and punching me she was with this other girl that was telling her that was another and to stop even some woman saw it walking by and said we should be figting like this I thought so lonely I couldn’t stop Crying I didn’t tell my parents about it I thought I couldn’t I felt so depressed that’s my story of my childhood in school and how it got worse by not talking out to stop it from carrying on
So I tell anyone that is going through or have been bullied I had i did don’t sit and do nothing trust me it won’t go anyway as much you think it would just go away and want it to it want just like that you will have to do something about it stand up to bullying!!!
Everyday of my life i think about it and ask my self why did they pick on me what was it because I was different I still don’t know the answer.

I don’t know who its is and i need help

I get cyberbullied by people and I don’t know who it is because it is on an anonymous website they call me fat and ugly,say I’m weird and cringy, call me a lesbian, say that my boyfriend is cheating on me, say that I’m not worth it cause I was a mistake. My mum found out but I told her I was fine but I’m not I wanna kill myself and go on a diet just so I can be good enough for them. I need someone’s help I don’t know what to do I hate myself and this world!!!!!

How I survived bullying in school through the years.

So do you know about those people who bully you? I was bullied by the ‘popular’ kids. They usually would usually call me ‘weird’ or other things. I would suddenly get followers then Then would unfollow me. Like a popular girl at my school did that to me. There were online bullies from my school and I confronted them but they kept on going with their behavior. I met an amazing group of friends who made my self-esteem much stronger. They would eat lunch with me, hang out with me, and do things that include me. Now, I’m a happy teen girl that is in school that has friends. You can start the difference if you are the bullied one. Bullies reading this, please change your behavior.

When I was in fifth grade, I was bullied by a group of girls and a few boys in my grade. They would say nice things sarcastically, and I would just brush them off. At home though, every night, I’d cry myself to sleep and I would think that I was ugly and not worth anything. I had to start seeing therapists because of my severe level of depression. I almost committed suicide that year, but having an amazing best friend helped a lot. My friend was super supportive of everything I believed in and wanted to help me to love a happier life. She was super kind and caring at all times. We both have each other, always. She kept me alive, and I am one of her biggest support systems ever. So THANK YOU to all of those loyal friends who are there for each other. For all of you being bullied: Keep being you. The universe has chosen you wisely. The universe chooses ones who can fight and live through the bullying and help others to be bullied, so instead of considering it a weakness, consider it a honor. You have been specially chosen as a responsible, and kind person who can help others. Also, never let the world wipe the smile from your face. You are beautiful and special, no matter what, and remember that the universe has given you a purpose. I believe in each and every one of you!! Keep on being you, and don’t let anyone change that! You are not alone. Always remember that there is always someone in this world who will love you no matter what, and you can always talk to them. Whether it be a best friend, parent, or counselor, they have your back. And if all else fails, all of us who have been bullied love you, even if we have never met you. We care for you and we have that special connection through experience, even if we have never met. I don’t care who you may be and where you may be from, or what you look like, I am here for you and I appreciate and care for you all. Just keep being yourself and know that you don’t need to change yourself, instead, the world should change their perspective. You are all wonderful, and amazing people with bright futures ahead of you. You will get through this. I am living proof that you can. I have faith in all of you. Just stay you and never change. <3<3 😀

How i came back…

Well, as all people here i have been also bullied…My story started when my teenage routine started….
I was bullied,first by my family,my teachers then my friends…I really don’t know why i call them my friends,actually they aren’t…I was like: I really wanted to die, and a lot of times i’ve told my parents bout this,but they never wanted to hear me…Friends started beating me , a guy who destroyed my life pushed me from the stairs,my teachers offended me so many times, and my parent’s idk they’ve always screamed into me…
The high school started,i was so lost, there were a long time that i hadn’t smile, i couldn’t trust anyone…I met a guy…The one who really wanted to know my story , i told him that i want to die, but he with his loyalty helped me to be who i am today..I believe,smile,laugh,enjoy life and do what i want…The guy is my bestie today….I met an another girl who showed me the big love that i needed, and i’m so thankful for forever…
Everyone needs a real bestie,i was so stupid that i’ve cared bout what other people said, now i’m back and i know that life sometimes is so hard but it dosen’t means that we should give up…!